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There was one topic in the forum about keys how to get laid with the woman of your dreams. One said that one time, one of my super-scoring buddies invited that man to go to a party with him. The man didn’t have much social life, but excepted his invitation, and besides, this guy REALLY knew how to get laid. The man said, that he felt himself like an amateur at that moment, he knew that that man is far more experienced with women.

He narrated that they were wandering around that huge apartment complex, looking for the party. He mentioned that they were walking down a hallway when they passed an open door, and there was a party going on, but it was definitely NOT the party we had been invited to. He said that that was a formal affair; everyone was very well dressed, and the two men were both wearing jeans and scruffy tennis shoes.

But despite that fact, in the doorway he saw a stunning blonde in a low cut dress, surrounded by some guys trying to hit on her. The man said that his buddy saw her too, then looked at him, and went right into action. He saw him walking in the door, cutting through the crowd of guys, saying something to her that he couldn't hear, and giving her a card and a pen. Then she wrote something down, and out came his buddy, smiling ear to ear. And then the man was told by his buddy that he had gotten her phone number!

The man asked his guy what he said, and he told him, that he said to that girl, that when he looked at her, he unlike that gentlemen standing near the girl. Then he added that he didn’t have any time even for a small talk and he also told her that he would like her to go out. He asked that beautiful girl whether he can have her phone number and then she gave it to him. That man also mentioned that, it's not always necessary to be that direct. But the man also ensured that it is really necessary for him to grasp and use the attitude his buddy had, the super-attitude which will get anybody laid more than any line, trick, good looks, fancy car or fortune. That attitude is that anybody has to know, that he makes no excuse for his desires as a man, he makes no excuses for himself, he moves through the world without any apology.

He said that the best way for someone to get laid with all the women he could ever possibly want is to stop making excuses for himself. He gives a piece of advice for everybody not to make excuses for wanting to look at a beautiful woman. He added that in case someone is caught looking and the woman asks what is he doing, he should just tell it to her. You have to tell her that you're enjoying studying just what a perfectly beautiful body she has, and to argue with her if she's too uptight to appreciate a real man who doesn't apologize for knowing what he wants!

You have also to stop making excuses for wanting to meet a woman! To stop making excuses for wanting to ask a woman to go out, and the most important thing-to stop making excuses for wanting to FUCK the living shit out of a woman you want! Because this kind of direct, powerful, go-for-it-attitude is an incredible turn on for women that can't be beaten!

You have to realize that it isn't even the words you use that convey this attitude! All elements are important- it's your tone of voice, your facial expressions, your posture, the speed at which you speak, everything non-verbal about you will show this attitude far more than only words.

But anyway, this doesn't mean you have to be arrogant, or lack a sense of humor. Frankly speaking, you can be warm and friendly at the same time you are being direct and powerful. This key is finding the balance and effectiveness. Once you follow the advice, you will not be able to keep women away from you.

At the moment it is quite easy to talk and tell you that you should have this attitude, but that won't actually help you to get it. That's is the reason of importance of next chapters. They will really show you how to install this attitude in yourself so that you find yourself living by it in your approach to women. You have to realize that you won't even have to try or to "think about it." It is to happen.

There was also another attitude somebody would want to master if he really wants to have a success at scoring with women like a madmen. He has to think in the way, that he doesn’t get related with setbacks. Because you learn from your mistakes. One man said that he remembers watching a TV show where the host was interviewing a movie star/karate champ who shall go nameless. He added that the host asked him what the secret of his success was, and the karate guy looked at him in that wooden way of his and said, that when he first started out competing in Karate Tournaments, he wasn't that good. He added that he got beat a lot, but he always learned from his mistakes. But instead of crying over his losing, he just studied what he would have to do differently the next time, and the most interesting thing is that whenever he met the same guy again or a different guy in the same situation, He ALWAYS creamed 'em."

He also said that unless you are usually lucky, chances are you are going to make a few mistakes as you practice the ideas in this book. The more so, as great as these tricks are, they can't work every single time.

Despite the fact, that you know how to learn from your mistakes and accept and occasional loss, you will possible get nowhere. He said , that the most successful guys he knows at scoring all have two great strengths: They have the first power attitude we've just looked at, and they also know how to accept getting rejected without it bothering and annoying them and they do learn from their mistakes. He also added that he would like to cover the next couple of articles which are to show you how to apply these attitudes instead of just reading about them.